The concept of adult entertainment is the most important part of my life, but you may have heard me say, “If you want to be entertained, you should be entertained. If you want to learn more about your day, read more about it.” I think it is the most important part of my life, but I’d say it’s more than that.
Adult entertainment is the part of the world that is most visible to most people. You may have heard of adult websites, adult videos, and so on. But what does it really mean to be able to spend an hour or so in a public space with other people who are not you? You are not allowed to be yourself.
With so many of us being more social on a daily basis than we usually want to be, you’d think our social media would stop being so public. But it’s not. The most recent example I’ve seen just happened to me. I walked into a public place to go to a movie. I was alone. Then I saw someone I knew sitting at a table with a bunch of other people. I looked at my phone.
The guy was on his phone. And then we realized he was not with me. He was with his girlfriend. But we are not allowed to have a phone in public places.
I can’t imagine being in a public place, even a crowded movie theater, and not wanting to see if another person is with you. I’ve been to a bunch of movies and theaters where the rules of the place were different. But being the only guy in the place when the movie ends, you do not want to call up and say hi.
At the theater, I just looked around. The girl I was with is going to have to talk to me if she wants to have a phone conversation. I think I need to be with someone who has cell phone privileges.
I totally get that. In some movie theaters that are designed to get the most people in there, the rules are that you can not talk to any other people. The theaters are not designed to give you the best view of the movie or enjoy your free time in the process, so the odds that you will actually talk to anyone are slim to none. But in most public places, you are often the only guy.
The movie industry is more and more saturated with actors and actresses, so you can’t get in the way of the public gaze. That’s okay, but if you want to talk, then go ahead.
While I agree that the general public is not interested in your sexual activity, once you’re inside the theater, it’s completely understandable that you might want to talk to the people in front of you. When you’re inside the theater, you should be at least as likely to talk to people as you are the opposite sex.
While I agree that the general public is not interested in your sexual activity, once you’re inside the theater, its completely understandable that you might want to talk to the people in front of you. When youre inside the theater, you should be at least as likely to talk to people as you are the opposite sex.