I hear “submissive” a lot. I know that for many of us, it is hard to understand what it really means until we’ve experienced it ourselves. For me, it means I am a man who is submissive to others as I please him. I don’t put my needs first, I do what he wants, and he is the one who must obey.
This is a great definition of submissive because it helps us understand what submissive means exactly, without having to explain it.
In this case, the word submissive is derived in Latin from a word with the same meaning in English. It literally means “having the power of obedience.” The word means that you will obey your leader if he says you can, or if he says you should. What makes it difficult to understand and get with is that the word itself came from the Latin verb sublatum. It literally means “to put under something to rule over.
So when a girl says, “I’m submissive,” her meaning is that she is a passive partner in what your male boss wants her to do. In other words, she might be submissive if she can only do the things your boss asks her to do. It’s not that she doesn’t want to do the things your boss wants her to do. It’s just that she doesn’t know how to do them.
I can see where the problem with this is that this is very different than “submissive.” The girl may want to be submissive, but she doesnt really know what she wants to do. Like a boy who doesnt know what he wants to do until he sees a girl, he might have only a vague idea of his wish-list and she might be able to give him the means to fulfill it.
In the case of submissive, it’s really just about the submissive being told what to do. In that case, the submissive will do whatever your boss tells her to do. In the case of submissive, submissive.
As a man, if you have a boss who wants you to be submissive, you are going to be submissive. If you have a boss who wants you to be submissive, that means you have to ask her if shes submissive so shes willing to do your bidding. And if you have a boss who wants you to be submissive, you also have to ask her if shes submissive so her boss, your boss is willing to do your bidding.
When I read the following, I thought to myself, “That’s a lot of pressure.” But this is the very type of situation in which the boss might be submissive. I mean, if you asked the boss if shes submissive, you would be submissive. If you asked her boss, your boss, if shes submissive, she would be submissive. And if you asked the boss her boss, you would be submissive.
When I ask someone about something, I normally ask them if they think its okay or if they are willing to do it. If they say they are, I usually ask if they are willing to do it. I find that a little bit different in this case since it is a question about submissiveness. If I was the boss, I wouldn’t ask that question because I’d be asking for more permission than I’m willing to give.