Well, you might be surprised by this. It’s not difficult to act like you dont care about other people in your life. We often have an easy tendency to assume that others must feel the same way about us. That we are just not to concerned about what others think of us. But really, we are. And if we act like we dont care about other people, we are actually acting like we are a whole lot more aware of their feelings.
We act like we dont care about other people in two major ways: (1) we don’t let ourselves be affected by others (2) we don’t let anyone else feel what we feel. That leads to some pretty great results.
How you act is very much up to you, but try to act like you dont care about others in two major ways 1 you dont let yourself be affected by others 2 you dont let anyone else feel what you feel.
One reason for this is that many of us take ourselves too seriously. We think we are the best people in the world and we are not. We are not even close. So when we put ourselves out into the world and see others acting this way, it is very easy to feel like we are the ones who are stupid. Even though we arent.
It seems to me that most people are a bit of a sucker for the idea of being the hero. We want to be the cool kid in school, the popular kid, the cool person. We want to feel like we can do anything we set our minds to. We want to be so successful and so cool that we dont even care about anyone else and we take no care of ourselves. In reality, the only way to truly care about others is to truly care about yourself.
The problem with this idea is that most are not the kind of person who is going to go out of their way to be so successful without taking care of themselves. If we are that kind of person, we would take care of ourselves and we will make every effort to do so. But most of the time, we are the kind of people who care more about their own self-esteem than they do about others and that’s just not good enough for us to be the hero.
But how to act like you dont care? I don’t know of any way other than by going out of our way to show that we do. And that is what I do in my own life. When I’m feeling low, I will go and grab a bottle of tequila and pour myself a drink. I will walk off and talk to myself for a few minutes and then I will walk back out and grab a beer and walk back to my place.
Drinking is one of the only things that helps us feel better about ourselves. So I guess that’s what I’m going to do. I’m going to get a beer and walk back to my place.
Yeah I would agree. A lot of us have had a few drinks, but the problem is so many of us don’t know how to handle ourselves. The trick is how to not look like you are. A friend of mine just threw up on the street in front of a bus. I went over to help and she told me she was a prostitute and that she was the one who threw up on the street.
This is a common problem. A lot of us are very “fussy” people, so that when we do something that we don’t feel like doing, we usually just get so upset and don’t care to do it anymore. If you’re like me and like to drink beer, the problem is you have to drink a lot. So you drink a lot of beer and then you end up crying.
