The alpha male in any relationship is the one that gets it. We’re all a little bit insecure about our ability to measure up to it.
In an effort to help us deal with this insecurity, here is a handy guide to dealing with alpha females, all from a man’s perspective. First, you should never underestimate the power of a female who’s a little bit insecure. Don’t give her the impression that you think she’s perfect, or that you think she’s special, or you’re the only one who does this.
Alpha females are the most difficult to deal with when they see you as one of the “other girls” in their group. They often see you as the “favored one,” the one who gets to be the “best” at everything they do (or at least the one who gets to have the most fun), and will try to get your attention by acting in a way thats a little bit different than the norm.
For the most part, alpha females are very understanding and do their best to help you in your relationship with them. This is probably because they often have a lot going on in their lives, and a lot of the time this translates into a lot of stress and anxiety. Although there may be times when alpha females are acting a little differently (or perhaps with less success) than the norm, this usually comes as a result of a change in their lifestyle.
Alpha females are probably the most intelligent and most confident females in our society. While this is sometimes good, many times it can be just a way for them to cope with stress. When we first meet our heroine, Katja, she’s the kind of woman who is not afraid to ask you for help; she is just a bit too overbearing for my liking. When I first meet her, she’s a bit overwhelmed and a bit unsure of herself.
This isn’t to say Katja is a bad person. She knows that people can see her and her personality isn’t as dominant as it once was, but she’s still a bit too overbearing to me. She’s more of a victim than a fighter.
I agree with you. Many times in a relationship, the alpha female is not the one who is the one to handle the stress. I also think Katja has a bit of an overbearing personality that causes a bit of a problem in a relationship. I know I do. Its not a character flaw, its a character trait. I think it annoys Katja when shes the one to handle the stress and I think it makes it harder for her to build a relationship with someone.
If you’re playing as Katja, it’s a good idea to take it easy on her. I think she knows she’s a bit overbearing, but she also knows that’s what she is to the people around her. There are certain things you can’t change about yourself. You can’t change the fact that your hair is dark, or that you have a mole on your cheek.
A lot of times we focus on the negative side of alpha females. I personally do not like this attitude. I think we just focus on the fact that they are a bit overbearing, and I think that is all we ever see of them. And I think that is a bad thing. Even if Katja has a few of these flaws, she still has a ton of potential. She has a good heart.
I can’t say that I agree with anyone saying that Katja is overbearing. Katja is in a very serious relationship with her best friend Liana, a guy I met at the game’s New York Comic Con. He’s a total gentleman and is very open and honest to her. So I personally think Katja does have a good heart.
