I don’t have a scientific way of knowing if a guy is hard. You just know if he’s the type to beat up your friends. If he’s the type to just put his hands on you while you’re on the bus, go for it. So, what I do is I just look at him. I try and look at his face and body language.
There is a certain body language that signals whether someone is a player or not. In the case of a player, your body language should be a combination of body language, facial expression, and eye contact. In the case of a player, your body language should also include an odd, yet specific, body movement. The same applies to men.
Men don’t like to be touched. They don’t like to be touched at all. They like to be put in contact with their bodies. Which is why there’s a general rule that goes something like, “If you don’t like to be touched, don’t touch me.
This is why you should play on the couch. Unless you’re into the fact that you can do it. But, theres no such thing as a hard player. You can’t tell if you’re a hard player unless you get a good look in the eye, and thats not something you want to do.
All you really need to know is that if a guy like you is really tough, you will get hurt. He has a point there, and that you should just give him the benefit of the doubt. If he says he likes to be touched, then do what you feel is right for you. But if you do something you dont like, then you shouldnt do it. Thats the only way to really know if a guy is actually hard to get to know.
This is a good analogy of how we treat people. In our society, we give people a wide range of leeway in what they can and cant do. But at the very core of that leeway is that people are free to do anything they want. A man or woman who is truly hard to get to know should be the exception, not the rule.
Well, that’s not entirely correct. Women are supposed to be the exception in this regard, because they can and should act exactly like men in this regard. I don’t think there is a whole lot of difference between the two. But I just wanted to point out that it is ok to be harder on women than on men. It’s just not ok to be on the wrong side of the “anything goes” line.
If you are going to be a woman, you are not allowed to be a bitch. What that means is that you are supposed to be the perfect and perfecter version of a woman, and not the bitch version of a woman. This is the point where women are supposed to try to get you to shut up and just sit there and feel sorry for you. You are supposed to be like, “Oh, I just want to say something nice that will make me feel better.
There are so many things we women can be like. We can be like “Oh, I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to hit you,” or “I didn’t mean to be so rude.” We can be like “I wish I were black, but I am not,” and “I wish I had a bigger dick.
If a guy is hard, then I’m going to be hard too. I hope. But the reason I’m going to be harder than you is that I don’t just ask men if they are hard. I know that some of them are, because I’m a woman. I also know that some of them are not because they don’t seem to realize how much they are hurting me.