Many of us work very hard to be in a healthy relationship with ourselves and our partners. We may work very hard to be the best that we can be, to look beautiful and well-groomed, to maintain our healthy habits, to be as close to perfection as possible.
In a healthy relationship, we are all so much more than the sum of our parts. It is so much easier to be the best that we can be when we are all in a healthy relationship.
Sometimes we can be so much better than we think we can be, in a healthy relationship. That’s an important lesson. However, it is important to ask ourselves if we are doing everything we can to be as perfect as we think we can be.
It is not just a matter of we are doing the best that we can be as we are. We are doing everything right and trying to do it all at the same time. It is such a struggle. We are so worried about whether or not we can do everything at the same time, we are doing everything wrong. And so much of our time and energy is spent trying to find the perfect balance between not being everything at the same time.
We are all so worried about whether we can do everything at the same time that we often don’t even do everything at the same time. For example, if we are trying to fit in social activities with our partner, we are often too focused on what we think we can do together and not on what we can do on our own. If we are working on a project with our kids, we forget to be together with them.
It’s almost as if we don’t even have time to be with our families, our friends, and all of our relationships. We are just so busy, so consumed by how we can fit everyone else into our lives, that we don’t even notice the time we lose.
Same time, same principle. Relationships are a constant state of being in balance. When you are in a relationship you have to be constantly making decisions about how you are going to play the game. For example, if you are trying to fit in with your partner, you can be in a constant state of trying to prove your worth and trying to gain their attention.
It’s a constant state of trying to gain their attention, which is why I consider it the “third principle of relationship.
One of the most important things in a relationship as well as in any other situation is that you have to be constantly asking yourself “When am I going to learn?”. What are the things you will be learning? What are the things that will be important to you in the future? When you are in a relationship, you will be constantly learning a lot about yourself and others.
If you look at a lot of relationships, people always try to learn about others and figure out what they need from them or what they want, but most of the time they forget this and end up feeling like im missing something. One of the reasons many people feel this way is because they get anxious about what others will think of them. I’m not talking about being afraid of rejection. I’m talking about being afraid of failure.