You’re either married or you’re not, and so on. I’m married and I already know how to say “I love you” when I’m in the mood for it, even if I’m not in the mood to say it.
Im married, so I never say it. I think it’s just weird that my spouse can say anything, but I can’t say it to him. And you know what, I’m not really sure why this is, but I’m sure it’s a small coincidence. I’m sure it’s just because I’m married.
The whole concept of saying “I love you” is a whole thing. It’s like saying “I’m sorry” right after you’ve done something wrong by accident, or after you’ve hurt someone in the past. In the same way that, “I’m sorry I said that” makes no sense in the first place.
There’s nothing wrong with saying that. The problem is when it turns out that you just said that to a complete stranger, rather than someone you know. The reason why we say it is so that we can feel closer when we say it. When we say it to each other, we want to feel that we are being honest. When we say it to someone we don’t know well, we want to feel that we are showing them we are being honest.
The problem is that the more we say it to a stranger, the more we forget that we are actually doing it. We say something to someone we just met with confidence in our voice, and we don’t even realise that we are saying it in front of a complete stranger. Because we are so afraid of being misunderstood that we feel the need to explain ourselves. Because we are so afraid of being judged that we feel the need to explain ourselves.
This is something that I think a lot of us go through. You might think that you are being “real” to your partner, but you’re not. You’re just pretending, and it gets in the way of the real thing. It’s just as bad when it comes to someone you are dating.
Not that I think you should date someone who is pretending they are all that, but for reasons that I will explain, it can be hard to be real to someone else when you are just pretending. For me, dating someone who is also pretending is just confusing. Its not like the person is actually being truthful. I think that this is especially true online.
Pretending is not the same as lying, though. If you are just pretending to be someone else, then you are not lying. It is the same with cheating. A lie is telling someone that you are not who you are, but a cheating partner is cheating on the other person. This includes pretending that you are trying to get a new partner, but in reality you are still seeing the person who is pretending to be you. This can get in the way of the real thing.
There are some people who are very good at this. However, if you are using this technique to cheat on your partner, it is a violation of trust. Not only are you lying to them, but you are also lying to yourself. In the case of cheating, your partner is not cheating on you. They are telling you that they aren’t who they say they are.
This is a common mistake among women that I see often. The reason that this can happen is because it is almost easier to tell your partner that you are having a cheat day versus telling them that you are having a cheat night. By cheating on your partner, you are not actually cheating on yourself.