I’m not here to judge your ex. I’ve been there too. My husband and I have had countless hours of talk on the phone (phone sex, not sex), texts, and emails. We have talked and texted for days and weeks on end. The point is, the fact that someone has been with you for years and not met your needs is not a sign that they are unhappy.
It is often the case that we have to wonder, “Why can’t they just get over it?” It’s so much easier to “fix” an issue than deal with the reality of it.
I agree. I think there is a big difference between not having sex and not having sex with you. What I mean is, it’s not a sign that they are unhappy. It is a sign that they are not in love. There is a reason why they broke up. It is not a sign of unhappiness.
Sometimes you have to wait for relationships to be over. It takes so long for a relationship to be over that it’s hard to know when it’s good to go.
I had a similar experience with my ex. I was hurt by it. I mean, it was a big deal when we broke up, but I knew I had to put it on the back-burner. I knew it was over, and I had to let it go. But I also know that there were times I thought he loved me, and I didn’t know if that was because I was being stupid to dump him. I just knew that it was over.
Yes, it took a lot of effort for me to get over him. I thought I was over him, and I was wrong. But it still took me a while to realize that I was still married to him, so I didn’t know what to do. I knew that I had to let him go, but I didn’t know how to let go. I thought I was supposed to just be happy he was gone, but I knew that I needed to be sad that he was gone.
For most of us, the process of getting over someone is usually easier than the real process of getting over them. It can take a lot longer, but the real process is often so much more painful than the process of getting over someone. It is a very common mistake to believe that you can get over someone by pretending they aren’t there. It is a dangerous mistake to imagine that you can get over someone by pretending they aren’t there.
You might want to take a look at this piece from a recent Psychology Today article on how a woman’s body tells us a lot about her feelings.
I think it might be easier to just get over someone by getting emotionally invested in them. But that is only half the battle. The half that you can get emotionally invested in someone without actually being there. This is actually a really big reason why I do not get into relationships anymore. I just can’t deal with the emotional pain of it. I do not know how to get through to someone who has no idea what is going on underneath their shell of a personality.
This is a really great point. I have a friend who is a very emotional person. It is an emotional connection that I do not share with others. I think that it is the most common reason why people end up in relationships that do not work out. The more that you have a genuine connection with someone, the less likely you are to push your partner away.
